Mothers Make the Difference
Many mothers made the difference in my life.
Though my mom got pregnant unexpectedly when she was yet young, she did the right thing and had me. I had pneumonia when I was born and had to sleep in an oxygen tent for a while, but my mom and grandma Nana were by my side to comfort me.
As a toddler when my mom suffered with postpartum depression and alcoholism, my Nana kindly cared for and mothered me. Nana was the first motherly figure with whom I deeply bonded and connected. She proved to be an anchor for me for over 30 years, one in whom I always could depend. Always hugging, kissing, and cooking for me Nana won my heart easily. Nana also bought me nice gifts and little surprises to remind me how special I was to her.
As my mom went deeper into substance abuse and began using drugs, my step-mom got involved and helped mother me also. She was instrumental in teaching me discipline and instilling in me a good work ethic. Though at times doing chores and obeying was difficult, I now know as an adult that those years in which my step-mom harnessed me were most necessary. Today I am the man I am because of her.
Throughout my life, career, and world travels living away from home I have had the good fortune of being somewhat mothered by many lovely ladies. In New York, I had a precious Greek landlord who treated me as a son. In California, my roommate’s mother cared for me when I was deathly ill. Throughout the many churches where I minister throughout the world, I always am drawn to the elderly ladies in the congregation who are always glad to receive a warm hug.
My mom by birth died an alcohol related death. Nana has since been promoted to heaven her new home. I cared for her during her last two years not wanting to put her in a nursing home. My step-mom I now call mom as she like Nana always faithfully mothered me. I often call and visit her, as I enjoy her company very much.
Something about a mother is comforting, assuring, and feels safe. I guess a guy can be himself around a mother as she understands. Mothers make life meaningful and less complex. Mothers nurture, love, and lift us.
Paul Davis is a worldwide professional speaker and author of Breakthrough for a Broken Heart; Are You Ready for True Love?; and Poems That Propel the Planet. His organization Dream-Maker Ministries is building dreams, breaking limitations, and reviving nations. Paul is a life purpose coach engineering breakthroughs and facilitating transformation.
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